Thrumpton Hall, just south of Nottingham, returned to it’s glory days last weekend, when my daughter Lisa married Leonardo Lopez Wain. I should have known that there was a Byron connection. A more romantic setting it would be hard to imagine. And indeed, a former owner of the Hall, Frederick the 10th Baron Byron, was married to Lady Anna Fitzroy, sister of the 10th Duke of Grafton, and a direct descendant of King Charles II.
The Cavaliers would have felt quite at home at last Saturday’s reception. My daughter loves period costume and the wedding guests were invited to indulge in the same. Many of her friends are role players and were delighted to partake. As one of the guests remarked to me “I just love dressing up, don’t you?” I had to confess that it was my first time, but that, yes, it did feel good.
I had already survived the drama of arriving at the wrong church just 15 minutes before the ceremony was due to begin, and a panic stricken scurry through country lanes to collapse into my seat a bare 5 minutes before the bride. My reading from Song of Solomon was delivered with an impassioned throb in my voice and knocking knees as I struggled to find my place in the bible. After that, everything felt good.
The Hall was magnificent. We gathered in the library, around an open fire. The books and the furniture were from a bygone age. The reception rooms were lavish, and the Jacobean cantilevered staircase, carved in wood from the estate, an object of real beauty. The guests mingled as good guests should. The atmosphere was as warm as the fire.
All too soon it was over, and Lisa and Leo stepped briefly out of character to fly BA to their honeymoon in Venice. Costumes donned again, they were off to Carnaval and a masked ball. May they always be as happy as they are today.
To see the dress and bouquet in more detail, please visit my Jakesprinter’s Sunday Post : On going. You can click on any of these individual photos to see them in gallery form. Happy Valentine’s Day everybody.


Dear Jo,
What an interesting family you have! May they never lose their sense of fun and adventure. Dressing up in period costume has always been a fun family activity for us. We went to medieval fairs and hosted historical dinners, and all that we enjoyed sharing with the kids. We have tucked away the best costumes for the grandkids, whenever that time comes, because I’m sure we’ll still be playing dress up then!
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It was a first for me, Naomi, and I had quite a bit of angst finding a frock, but I never saw more smiling faces at a wedding and they certainly generated a lot of happiness.
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Sorry if that comment is garbled; I’m still bunged up and my head isn’t right yet.
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You were perfectly lucid, as ever, Tilly. Sorry you’ve not been well. I knew you had WordPress issues so thought your absence was down to that. I mostly chase the travel blogs around and catch up with you on 6WS. (more hours, please!)
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What a fabulous spectacle! Talk about getting married in style. 🙂
I’m so glad you pointed me in this direction – because I’ve been unwell, I’ve missed a lot of what’s been going on and I was looking forward to the wedding photos I might otherwise have missed.
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Magnificent – truly magnificent. A day to remember, indeed!
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And fun, too, Marianne. The Venice honeymoon photos are up on her Facebook page and I spent ages drooling. Snow in Venice and costumes galore!
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congratulations! Looks like a lovely place for a wedding. Many happy memories from such a lovely day I am sure.
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I’m eagerly awaiting honeymoon photos now, Col. Venice lagoon with snow. Don’t think they took pics of Aqua Alta.
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Those wedding outfits put even a royal wedding to shame.
Talented is an understatement for your daughter!!!!
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Bless you, Vicky. That’s very kind, but I have to agree that she has an awesome talent, even if I shouldn’t.
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What a splendid wedding! Looked like fun! (:>) Loved the attire!…and the surroundings!!!
Linda
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It was fabulous, Linda, and all the more so because Lisa did so much of the work herself. (dress, Leo’s jacket and waistcoat, bridesmaid’s dress, groom’s waistcoats, cake and bouquets)
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What a wonderful wedding and described so beautifully.
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Thanks, David. It really was an amazing day (even by Lisa’s standards!)
Anywhere sunny in the pipeline, or have you already been? (not counting the Algarve)
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Hoping to tour New York, Pennsylvania, Virginia and Washington DC early June maybe. In the planning stage at the moment…….Google Earth really comes in handy!
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Congratulations, Jo!! And you looked fabulous!
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Bless you, hon. Not too bad for an oldie.
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A beautiful fairytale marriage. I love the costumes. I hope the newly wedded couple will live together, in marriage happily ever after. What a story! Thank you for sharing.
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It felt pretty much like being part of a fairy tale. They’ve been happy for the past 10 years, despite all that life has thrown at them, so I’m hopeful, Yahobahne. Many thanks for your nice comments.
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Beautiful, Jo! The queen mother looks lovely as well. I’m sure this was a wonderful occasion. I’m sorry you were in a panic about being late though and had to deliver your part with knees shaking!! The honeymoon in Venice sounds like the perfect ending to a unique wedding! 🙂
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No worries, Cath. It wouldn’t be me if things ran too smoothly! It all came right in the end. They’re home again this evening and here I am up at crack of dawn and can’t sleep. What else are blogs for? Thanks for your company.
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Honeymoon in Venice sounds heavenly. What a wedding! Much happiness to them both. 🙂
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Thanks, Ad. Hmm- I’m very jealous. I feel like I’ve walked every step of those canals this past 5 days. (the honeymoon was our wedding present so I just had to!)
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Congratulations to the happy couple and may they always bring such imagination to their endeavours.
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Thanks Aisha. I think i can pretty well guarantee that they will!
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I enjoyed both this and the previous post. Looks like a both fun and fantastic place to have a wedding. Congratulations!
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Many thanks, Munchow. As special occasions go, this one was very special.
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It’s so lovely, and now a honeymoon in Venice – it sounds perfect!
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She’s home tomorrow evening. I’ve been wondering all day where she’d be this Valentine’s eve, Meg.
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What a great wedding! Congratulations!
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Thank you, Malou. We had a truly beautiful day.
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the cake is gorgeous and so is the entire theme of the wedding. what a fantastic idea
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Thanks Tasha. Might you go for something similar?
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