It isn’t easy to post this week. I have a myriad of beautiful images of the Christmas lights sparkling around the Algarve, but on this day I will be saying goodbye to two men. One, a family member- my stepbrother who loved and cared for my Dad like his own. The other, a man who loved life and was loved in return. Both leave behind grieving widows, and families who are shocked at an unexpected turn of events. It’s never easy, but this is a time of year when everybody is set to celebrate. Without them.
The sun goes down 
And the lights come on 
A seat awaits 
Rudolph has left his antlers 
But all is peaceful in the stork’s nest
And on the waterfront 
The sign of the cross
RIP Tony and Terje.
restlessjo 
so very sorry, Jo. hugs.
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Thanks, sweetheart. A terrible time for the two families.
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I’m so sorry for your losses, dear Jo. Hope you find some comfort through the lights and nature. Take care.
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We know how very lucky we are, Amy! God bless 🙂 🙂
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Wow
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Have experinced it before. But still looked to the future also some hugs for you 😊😊
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Thank you very kindly 🙂
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I’d seen your earlier post about losing your friend and your step-brother, but not this one Jo. The lights are a lovely send-off and I hope they bring the families and loved ones some peace. It is never easy to lose a loved one but this time of year, with so many celebrating, makes it that much harder. Our thoughts are with you Jo, my you find peace this season and into the new year.
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Hi, Jo. I’m so sorry for your losses. Take care. I hope you can find comfort in nature and your peaceful walks under the sun.
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An awful couple of weeks, Patti, but better for me than for many others. Thanks darlin. Wishing you much joy in 2021 🙂 🙂
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What a sad end to a horrible year.. Your lights are a beautiful send off.. ;-(
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Tragic for both families, Lisa. Thanks for your company, hon! 🙂 🙂
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I almost missed this as somehow my email notifications aren’t getting through. Losing someone very dear is always tough but even more so at this time of year and especially in the strange times we are all currently living in. Your Christmas light photos are a lovely tribute, especially the golden arch, it’s truly beautiful. Hugs to you and yours Jo, take care x
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Thanks so much, Eunice. I wondered if you were ok as you’re one of my staunchest followers. Olháo is the town where Becky normally stays and I have to admit it’s looking beautiful this year. Thursday was a very emotional day but it’s easy for me to move on. Not so easy for two devoted wives.
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Sad to know about your loss. My condolences with you. It’s not easy to celebrate the season without loved ones in family bearing pain and memories. Life is like that.
Have good time.
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Thanks for your kind comments. Yes, life is like that! But thankfully, not all the time 🙂 🙂
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Yes, not all the time 👍…🙏
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So sorry for your loss, Jo. It is always hard to let go of loved ones and when these events happen unexpectedly, it deepens those wounds. Your Christmas light selection is a wonderful tribute to these two men!
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Many thanks, Liesbet. 🙂 Sad times!
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Hi restless jo
Sorry for the loss of what sounds like two awesome guys
RIP Tony and Terje
And the lights and night here seem to add a nice memorial vibe
Well done
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Thanks a lot, Yvette. I hadn’t known Terje long, but he died, from Covid, in shocking circumstances and we’re doing our best to celebrate his life. Tony was a very dear man. Life, for both widows, will never be the same.
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Ugh – sending good vibes to all 💕
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Sending love to you and your family, Jo.
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Many thanks, Carol. 🙂 🙂 They were both lovely men.
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A beautiful tribute with lights, Jo. I’m so sorry for these losses to your family.
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Thanks, Terri. 🙂 🙂 This isn’t a year to easily forget and this felt like the final blow.
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So sorry for your loss dear Jo. This is such a beautiful tribute to the departed. We’ve had our share of losses this year too. Can’t wait to see the end of it. Take care❤️
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It’s getting close, darlin! It may be a while before normal comes around again but we’re trying to stay positive. Sending hugs 🙂 🙂
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🤗😘
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Jo I’m sending heartfelt sympathy and hugs across the miles. Loss is always hard and more so at this time of year. XO
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Yes, I think so too, Sue. Everyone is planning celebrations but your world has fallen apart. Trying to count my blessings. Sending Christmas love to you and yours 🙂 🙂
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I know that my words can’t take away the pain of losing your loved ones, and that’s why I am sending you healing prayers and comforting hugs, Jo. 🙂
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Thanks a lot, Aiva. Much appreciated 🙂 🙂
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🧡🧡🧡
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I’m so sorry to read of your losses. This is such a tough time of year to lose anyone, and this year perhaps more than ever as we really need some Christmas joy in our lives
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I think many of us have written Christmas off as a celebration. If you can’t be with your loved ones it’s just another day, isn’t it? But we are still among the lucky ones, who have our health. So long as our youngsters are ok. Have a good Christmas, Sarah! All the best 🙂 🙂
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Losing friends and family is always hard, but it’s all the worse at holiday time. I’m sorry for your losses.
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Thanks, Lexie. Priorities have changed in the last couple of weeks. I was desperate to see the youngsters at Christmas but now I’m just grateful they are ok. 🙂 🙂
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Heart felt condolences my dear 😪
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Thank you very much 🙂 🙂
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My condolences. Glad you had the blue skies to walk under today. Hope they nourished you.
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Thanks, Dawn! It was too beautiful a day today for goodbyes. 🙂 🙂
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