Aleksander Boleslaw Szustakiewicz
26.2.1928 – 2.10.2016
My heart is too heavy to walk with you today. Some of you will know that Dad died whilst I was in the Algarve. He had a long, and often-times happy life, and made many friends along the way. He was never happier than when surrounded by family, and it brought real joy to his life when he was reunited with those in his native Poland, after an absence of 64 years.
Tomorrow he will be surrounded by love as we say our goodbyes, remember and celebrate his life. He was a wonderful Dad, and was ever present in my life. The loss will be huge, but the connection to Poland will endure, as he would have wanted.
I know you will excuse me from commenting this week, but whilst I was away the walks continued to roll in. I would like you to share them in my absence. Many thanks in anticipation of your tolerance and kind thoughts. I will be back walking with you next week.
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Cathy’s been romping all over Iceland! This is just one of many. Enjoy!
North Iceland : The Black Lava Field & Solfataras of Leirhnjukur at Krafla
Meantime, Becky is edging eastwards with a whole lot of history :
Not just the home of golf! Ask Elaine!
Autumn as you don’t very often see it. Through Cardinal’s eyes :
Some day I must make it to Sicily. Pretty please! Lady Lee loves it :
When Sue waxes lyrical you just have to sit up and pay attention!
Larch Trees in Canada- The Beauty Queens
Serious Sue (I’m differentiating 🙂 ) kindly lets me ride her mobility scooter at Wisley :
Signs of Autumn and a Sculpture Trail
Drake has found himself a jewel of a home in Alsace :
And Biti, the most beautiful ‘shell’ house you’ll ever see :
Ballymaloe Cooking School- The Shell House
Debbie tells the story of Wojtek, the bear who went to war. If you were curious about him after my last post, here it is!
Geoff goes strutting his stuff around London :
Let Jaspa take you to another fabulous UNESCO World Heritage Site :
The Forts and Tunnels of Old San Juan, Puerto Rico
I knew very little about Milwaukee till I read Jackie’s post :
Spicy chilli hot chocolate? Have some with Violet Sky :
St. Boniface and Gabrielle Roy
Navarra has such a nice sound to it. Leya would love to show you around :
Ziga, Baztan- Natural, Yet Sophisticated
Take care of each other.


Sending love and light Jo. 💕
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Thanks, Val.
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Condolences, Jo.
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Thank you.
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My condolences. May he rest in peace.
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Amen, and thanks, Sherry.
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Oh, Jo, I’m so sorry to hear that your father died. My deepest condolences. The photo of your dad shows the kindness in his face. Hugs and love.
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He was a lovely man and there was so much love returned to him. Thanks a lot, Maryann.
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It’s so wonderful that you had such a great relationship with your father, Jo, one you will always carry in your heart. I know you will miss him dearly. Love and peace to you and your family, dear Jo. Please take care of yourself during this difficult time and know that we all hold you in our prayers. Hugs and love. xxx
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Thanks, Cathy. He had a great ‘send off’, surrounded by love, as he was in life.
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I’m so happy you had a wonderful send off and celebration of your dad’s life, Jo. Hugs xxx
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Dear Jo, what heavy news. Sincere hugs from me, and sending much love and strength.
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It came out of the blue, Ann, and now that people are going home there’s an empty space that he filled with love.
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I hope we can somehow help you make the empty space more comfortable as time goes by. Hugs.
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I’m very sorry Jo – that’s a lovely photograph.
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He was a kind and loving man. Thanks, Susan.
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I am very sorry for your loss xx
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Many thanks to you.
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Thinking of you my friend (( )) ❤ ❤
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Thanks for the email, Jude. It made me cry. I will be in touch when I’m a bit more together but Dad had a wonderful send off yesterday, And now he’s at peace. 🙂
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Aw, sorry Jo, didn’t mean to make you cry. Rest up now and take care of yourself. It’s a very emotional roller-coaster time. Off to daughter’s today, Barca tomorrow. Catch up when I’m back 🙂
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Oh sweet, Jo, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Isn’t it wonderful to know that your father will always be with you during your walks. He sure has a wonderful smile. xoxo
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He was a man with a lot of love in his heart, Jill. Thank you for your kindness.
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❤
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My condolences Jo. It is always hard to lose someone you love dearly.
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Thanks, Colline. He’s at peace now.
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So sorry for your loss Jo.
Treasure your memories 🙂
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Thanks, Dawn. There are so many! 🙂
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Jo, I am so very sorry to have read this sad news. I’ve temporarily (?) left the WordPress world, as you’re aware, but still at times open a post or two. (Two might be saying a lot) My heartfelt condolences, my friend. I can’t know precisely how you feel but my heart, as many others, knows this feeling of helpless and sorrow. I’m here for you, should you need an ear. I sincerely mean that. I’m still not able to wrap my mind around my mother’s absence, but my love for her, and the love of the people around me cares me through. Be well, my faraway friend. With love, Gemma
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Gemma, it’s so very lovely to hear from you. Just the other day I was thinking it’s time to give Gem another poke 🙂 I have been surrounded by love and support, as was Dad. People are so very kind, and yesterday was made wonderful for him. He’s at peace now and I’m finding my way. I will email when things settle a little.
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❤️
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Your friends in the blogosphere share your sadness and our thoughts are with you at this time.
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Thanks, Judith. People are very kind. Dad knew a lot of love in his life.
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So sorry again for your sad loss Jo. Thinking of you at this difficult time and hope tomorrow goes as well as these things can in the circumstances. Lovely photo and a special tribute to your dear dad, take care xxx
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Thanks, Rosemay. Dad had a lovely send off yesterday. Still entertaining family today but tomorrow ‘normality’ will start to resume.
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We will both be thinking of you tomorrow Jo.
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Thanks, Carol. Nothing could have been further from my thoughts when we met up with you.
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Things change so quickly. Take care over the next few weeks, Jo. x
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I am so very sorry for your loss Jo. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family xox
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Thanks Sam. It’s much appreciated.
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Dear Jo,
My thought and prayers are with you as you deal with the loss of your beloved Dad. Bx
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It was a shock, but looking back at his life he knew so much love and I’m grateful for that. Thank you.
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immaginavo che la tua lunga assenza doveva avere un motivo preciso, ma certo non avrei mai voluto che fosse così triste!
le parole non servono a molto, ma a volte pensandole sonovere:
non piangere perché l’hai perduto, sorridi per il lungo tempo che con lui hai passato, sorridi ai ricordi e al suo Amore che terrai sempre nel tuo cuore chiuso come in uno scrigno prezioso
tutto il mio affetto per te cara Giovanna e per la tua famiglia tutta
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He was a loving and kind man, Annalisa, and the love was returned. There were smiles and laughter at his ‘send off’ and a lot of warm hearts.
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questo è veramente meraviglioso! e questo mi aspettavo dalla mia carissima e dolcissima Giovanna cui ho imparato a volere bene anche il lontatanza
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Sorry to hear your sad news Jo.xx
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Thanks, hon.
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